Expat Adventures: Cafe in China

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I knew my friend Zranwea, or Cafe as he’s known in the Capoeira world, liked to travel and had a sense of adventure, but when he told me he was packing up and shipping off to check out life in Shanghai, China, I was a bit surprised…and curious. What was he going to do? How was he going to get by? Why China? Now that Cafe has been a Shanghai resident for over one year, I decided to check in on him and see how things are going as he adjusts to life in a new country,  

Zranwea (aka Cafe) checking out the Shanghai food options

1. How long have you lived in Shanghai?

I arrived in Shanghai in the middle of Chinese New Year 2012.  Almost 15 months now

2. What was the thing that made you decide to get up and go? 

Life doesn’t wait. I dreamed of living outside of the United States, and by the start of 2012, there were no more reasons for me to delay. I thought my destination in Asia would be Japan. However, in 2011, I was invited by a good friend to Shanghai to teach a [Capoeira] workshop. I enjoyed my time in Shanghai, and 7 months later I was back.

3. Aside from location, what is the biggest change you’ve noticed in yourself since moving overseas?

Biggest change? I haven’t noticed significant mental or lifestyle changes since I’ve arrived.  I’m sure my experiences have changed me, but I haven’t spent much time reflecting on them.

4. What kind of travel did you do before you moved? 

I’ve done the 3-7 day basic tourist package in several countries, studied abroad as a student in Spain, and a journey, through Capoeira, in Brazil. Shanghai is the first place that I have stayed for more than one year, and worked as a professional.

5. Have you ever experienced mistreatment as an American? As a Black Man? If so, can you share about that experience?

I’ve only been the recipient of curious stares, and requests for photos. In China’s premier cities, people are accustomed to seeing expatriates, and I feel comfortable. No problems with law enforcement either.

6. What is a typical day like for you in Shanghai?

I’m an independent contractor, so I have flexibility with my schedule, but that comes with a caveat.  Since no one is telling me when to get up and go, I have to establish productive routines. I’ll get up and write or research a proposal, send  emails to clients, or hit the wet market and buy some fresh produce. 
However, the most important thing for me is physical activity. I have to work out and train Capoeira, otherwise I’m not mentally sharp.

“I have to work out and train Capoeira, otherwise I’m not mentally sharp”

7. Has it been difficult to meet friends?

Not in the least. The expat community here is outgoing. Shanghai may have over 20 million people, but the expats here are closely connected to each other. Social connections often turn into business referrals. Good people out here.

8. What things will you miss most about life in Shanghai if you eventually leave?

The fast pace of life, and the work opportunities.

9. If you could put anything in a care package from the U.S., what would it be? (This can be truly anything…no boundaries on size, shipping regulations or mailing feasibility)

China’s agricultural industry does not have the best reputation (understatement), and getting some organic produce would be great.

10. Where else in the world could you see yourself living? 

I haven’t identified anywhere yet. I have to experience the place first. More reasons to travel, right?

11. Have you ever had one of those “I can’t take it anymore, I’m heading back to the U.S.” kind of days? If so, what was it that kept you in Shanghai. 

The inevitable “China day”. I haven’t had one yet, but I do need a vacation to refresh myself. I’ve been here 15 months without a vacation to renew my spirit.

12. What has been your most memorable Shanghai experience to date?

Celebrating my birthday with the capoeira students who train with us. They made a lil’ video sharing their birthday wishes and unveiled it for me that night. 

13.   From 1 – 10, how would you rate your language skills when you arrived in China?  What about now? How do you go about improving your skills?

From 1-10. OneHate to say it, but my language skills have not markedly improved. I do not have a dedicated study schedule, so my Chinese language capabilities make slow and painful progress. I’m simply absorbing what’s around me, picking up speaking and reading skills as needed.


Apparently Chinese language skills are not required to land a spot on Chinese TV


14. If a friend were coming to Shanghai for the first time what parts of the city would you recommend to visit?

You’ll need to wander along The Bund, visit Yu Gardens, and head to a water town on the outskirts of Shanghai.  I enjoy walking through the Luwan district (part of the French Concession area). There are fewer high rise apartments and broad avenues full of traffic. Nice restaurants and cafes to relax in. The trees along the sidewalk provide shade and enliven the sidewalks.

15. Shanghai in 1 sentence…what would it be?

“What are you waiting for!”

A huge thanks to Zranwea Deyein (aka Cafe) for taking the time to share some of his expat experiences with us.  He is the first (guinea pig!) in what I hope will be a series of interviews with people experiencing foreign cultures by setting up residence in a new country.  If you live or have lived overseas and would like to be featured in a future post, please leave me a comment below or send me an email at nailah [at] theressomuchtosee [dot] com.


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3 comments… add one
  • Take A Leap July 19, 2013, 2:47 pm

    My twin sister and I visited a former graduate student of mine and his girlfriend in Shanghai this past December 2012/January 2013. We went as part of a tour and was able to visit them. My friend who is from South Carolina had not have a friend or family member visit him since his move in October 2011. We were his first visitors and had a great time. We interviewed him & his girlfriend among others at these links – http://youtu.be/bIYJxgnoysg; http://youtu.be/Ih21ownfRgI; & http://youtu.be/1mELeR98bMU. Great interview Nailah. And he is cute..haha..

    • Take A Leap July 19, 2013, 2:48 pm

      I meant former graduate classmate.

    • Nailah July 19, 2013, 7:06 pm

      I’ve been to Beijing in China, but I have yet to get to Shanghai. I keep threatening my friend that I will come visit. 🙂 Glad you had a good time and its always nice when you can visit a “local” (even if its a temporary local). Thank you for sharing your YouTube links!

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